怎樣做女人

-自愛

做女人最緊要自愛呀!

跟一個不合適的男人,就是不自愛, 糟蹋自己, 讓家人和關心你的人担心.

這不是愛.

明白嗎?

很久之前我已明白, 不再令關心我的人憂心. 縱使你可能不同意, 或者不認同, 不明白.... 但是我做到了.

現在, 我們很担心. 應該說一直都很担心, 現在更加担心.

cry

I haven't cried for ages. Now, I cry every night when I receive every update from my sister.
It is heartbreaking.....

She does not listen to us. I don't know what else we can do.

communication

I feel that we have a serious communication issue.

When we talked about a problem, the discussion was to find out a solution. It was not to find out who did right or who did wrong.

Please, we need a solution to fix the problem, not to think about who did wrong in the past.

People usually think about who is RIGHT or WRONG , and try to defend for oneself. But this does not help to solve the problem.

Somehow, our behaviour is not about right or wrong, it could be good or bad.
Is that good to do this? how bad will it be? any bad impact? etc.


I know that my sister is in a very difficult situation. She has no support in her place. If I were staying with her, I would able to help her to look at the issue and prevent the situation becomes wrose like it is now. But I am thousands miles away from her now. I feel sad. I am unhappy to see the current situation.

where?

I don't know where my family is now.

I have been asking myself this question. I think I have a family or my family is still here.
Today, I have got the answer.

I thought 2007 was a good year for me....at the beginning of 2007.
After the dramatic changes in these few months, I know 2007 is not a good year for me. I do not dare to think about the rest of the year.

Tomorrow, I will still need to be (or act ?) a tough and happy gal in front of people. If I don't behave like that people will feel strange and ask me a lot of questions that I don't want to answer. I think there are enough troubles now, I don't want to have any more.......

我反對

Sister, I don't agree your decision.
Broken mirror is a fact. The one betrayed is a fact. The one cannot be trusted. Don't let the one take you as a fool.

很心痛, 很憂心, 很担心....這個決定.
I can't believe it. She is hiding and hiding. she denies she lied... but she hides the fact. she abandons my trust on her. She ruins my kindness because of somebody who cheated her, who hurted her heart, who did not love her.
How could she treat us like that? She leaves the family to go for someone who make use of her?

為何要再錯, 再受傷害...為何不往前走?

要執屋

Busy July, I find my home is very messy...it is time to clean up now.