I don't want you to be changed because 'others' said you were wrong or you were abnormal.
It will be very hard if...."Papal said my behavior was wrong, so I need to change myself."
Frankly, there is no right or wrong about your personalities. If you can find a right time, right place and right person, your behavior will be fine, NO PROBLEM.
I just don't want to see you living by the judgment of 'others'. You know, you are what you are. It is YOU.
My dear, maybe my comment is not what you want to hear, or those 'other people' want to hear, I just want you to be yourself and HAPPY, my friend.